well... now it works !! i dont really know what have changed..!
one thing i have noticed, this time it warned me that the SKI license is going to expire in 30 min on C7.5 startup..
( i dont know why there was any expired programs, i have full licenses from steinberg,and it gave me strange message later, your Cubase 7 license has been expired !!)
anyway,i was able to use cubase with ic pro, after an hour i quit cubase, made maintenance on elicenser, now cubase start up normally with SKI Remote.
so maybe its something related to bad licensing? i dont see it now on elicenser anyway now that all works
hope it stays O.K
cubase Pro 8.0.5 64bit ,halion 5.1.1 , GA4.2 HS2,HSO,Dark planet,neosoul keys.
Sony vaioF13 i7 CPU win7 64bit 8gb
(PC Desktop AMD dual core win xp32 cubase 7-32)
Steinberg MR816csx ,MR816x ,UR44 ,CC121
Motif es6 Kawai Mp4 Korg PA800.
cubasis,cubase ic pro