So 
Unless a tornado draws me back into the discussion again,
I’d like to say just a few more words.
The video example is recorded to showcase the problem,
and is therefore performed with a higher latency than usual.
Maybe there was some misunderstanding earlier but
to make clear, I don’t use any quantize there.
When recording VST instruments with lower latency, the problem shrinks accordingly,
but doesn’t disappear. I often have to move forward stuff to compensate.
Especially when it comes to live playing and I don’t want to quantize,
but also at times when I intend to quantize right.
Seems like there’s a bunch of people out there who’d love to see this work properly.
It could be a setting in the preferences at least. Maybe most people wouldn’t bother,
while others would see it as kind of groundbreaking.
Let’s see what they say at the support.
Thx!
/ Joel